Thursday, June 25, 2009

The Destroyer


Luke is crawling. Does that explain the title? About a month ago we were in Utah and Luke was showing off how he could scoot backwards. I was sure it would be that way for at least a couple months, but within a few days of being home that all changed. He first started with doing pushups, which quickly evolved into rocking back and forth on his hands and knees. Then he was flopping forward and began to sort of 'swim' across the floor. I thought that it would be quite awhile before he ever learned to crawl normally and there was always that possibility that he would never crawl normal. But he fooled us and within a week he was crawling like a pro and pulling himself up onto EVERYTHING.

He loves to stand and climb onto anything he can find a way onto or into. His favorite spots for climbing have been the VCR box, the fireplace, the dishwasher and the shelf on his changing table. As for standing, anything or anyone will do. Yesterday, he figured out how to get back into a sitting position from crawling or standing. He has also learned to cruise and if I'm not paying attention he'll cruise on down the pew to introduce himself to all of the families on our row or the row behind us. He is a very social baby to say the least.

When we are out and about he is always catching the eye of the other shoppers and gives them charming smiles and talks to them. Everyone gets so excited and feels privileged that a baby 'likes them.' I just smile and reassure them in their thinking without letting them know that Luke isn't too particular about who he does or doesn't like. In general Luke is a very happy and easy going baby. He is good everywhere we go and I can only hope that the rest of his siblings will be the same.
The greatest thing Luke learned this last month was to sleep 11-12 hours at night! It is so amazing! Some nights he sleeps up to 14 hours and he often goes to bed before 7. So, that makes for some nice evenings. Luke has also grown 2 teeth on the bottom and he loves to chew on things. I often wonder if I am raising a little boy or a puppy. There are quite a few similarities between the two.
Luke hit the 25 pound mark and wears 24 month clothing. He has certainly become quite a burden to carry around for too long, but he just keeps growing in weight and height so quickly. Everyday he amazes me with the things he figures out or understands. I can't believe he is already 8 months old. Life just goes too fast.
Luke always puts his left leg up on his knee when he's just hanging out on the floor
Well, other than our excitement with Luke's advancements there aren't too many exciting things going on with us. Things are going well for Mark at work and he is learning more and more each day about what an actuary really does. I am still working from home and trying to find new things for Luke and I to do during the day so we are not bored. Mark and I are speaking on Sunday and so we are working on our talks. Yipee! Last weekend we went to a rodeo and it was a lot of fun! I think we'll make it a tradition. Next week we are going to Utah for the 4th of July and I will be staying there with Luke until the 25th. Unfortunately, Mark will be heading back to hot Texas on the 7th.

Speaking of heat, it is way too hot here! It has been over 100 degrees the last few days and there is no relief in sight until sometime next week. I'm glad we'll be in Utah to at least avoid the humidity.

I think that's it. I have a bunch of pictures so look at the sidebar for the slideshow. If you click on the slideshow you should get connected to our picasa webpage. Hope everyone is doing well!

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Father's Day

Today has been a day of mixed emotions. We heard a lot of wonderful messages in church about fathers and their role in our mortal lives on earth as well as the eternal nature of family. Today, June 21st, 2009, is the first time in my life that I've been able to celebrate Father's Day as a father myself. Strangely, it is also my first Father's Day without my Dad. Last year on Father's Day, Suzanna and I had recently found out the gender of our unborn baby, and we were both very excited over the idea of having a little boy in our family. I am still a little shocked over the very unexpected events of the last five and a half weeks.





Here is the last picture (I believe) that I have with Dad. It was taken at my graduation on Friday, April 24th, just three days before we left for Texas. The whole family was together on Mother's Day in May except for us, and we were sad that we couldn't have been there, especially after Dad passed away the next Friday, but Suzanna, Luke, and I had almost an entire week to spend with him and Mom as I graduated and we cleaned our apartment and packed in preparation for the move to Texas. We had a lot of fun that week, and I'm glad that we made a lot of good memories. I'm grateful that his health was so good for the last few months and that there weren't any more hospital stays for him.




I love this picture; my dad and son together the day Luke was born. I've thought a lot about both of them and our relationships today as we honor our fathers. I am very grateful for both of them because they have both had a profound influence in my life, and I am very thankful for the sealing power of the Priesthood which allows us to be a family for eternity.


Since I can't call Dad today to wish him a happy Father's Day and express my love to him, I thought I'd post these pictures and express my appreciation to him through the blog. I think about him often, as so many every-day things remind me of him. I hope that I can be a dad to Luke like my Dad was to me. I always felt comfortable around him, and I will always cherish the countless memories I have of him. I know we'll see him again someday, and that day will be relatively soon when considering the 'big picture.'


Dad, I miss you a lot already, but I know you are well and happy where you are. I love you! Happy Father's Day!